My Husband
I can not deny the fact that I have countless fantasies, but the one million bucks question is what I
would expect of my future husband. Perharps I will die searching- no words can tell how hard it is to get
someone who fits all the qualities a modern girl would demand- without considering his physical
appearance, of course.
1// I would like him to love and respect me, my attitudes, my opinions, preferences and dislikes.
2// Some one who will understand me and can put up with my weaknesses.
3// I would not expect him to yell at me when I make mistakes, since no one is perfect.
4// He should lay his trust on me and not rely on other sources to ascertain that what I tell him is the
truth.
5// Some who will not lock me out of his hurdles. He should allow me to lend a hand when his aches.
We both need to help carry each other’s burdens.
6// A down to earth guy, I expect him to help me prepare meals, when it is convenient. However, I will
never ask him to help me out with other household chores.
7// I’ll expect him to appreciate my love for him and he should not feel ashamed of me, especially when
his friends are around.
8// Someone who for what ever reason, will NOT lay his hands on me.
9// Possessing me or overworking me will be my worst night mare. He should give me room to speak
for myself.
10// He should not blame me when ever problems arise or look for faults to accuse in a bid to cover up
his own mistakes.
11// One who go publishing our problems or always seeking advise from friends. It were better if we
faced our petty differences together, alone.
12// He should never dictate what I should or should not do as long as we both know that what ever I
decide to do, will not get me into problems.
Lorna Kendi. Materi Girls centre. Form 3. Kenya